![]() ![]() I’m tempted to just do nothing (and hope I never run into Sam ever again in my life), but Sam would also be hurt when they see the pictures on Facebook later and infer they weren’t invited, so I’m really just trying to avoid an awkward conversation. ![]() ![]() But… I don’t know how to tell Sam. I am sure they would be hurt to hear that fiancé doesn’t want them at the wedding, but what else can I tell them? Blame it on a very superstitious relative? Tell Sam we eloped, and hope no one else mentions the wedding at the bachelorette party? Manipulate someone in Sam’s family into getting married on the exact same day, so that Sam has to go to that wedding instead? I’ve talked to my fiancé about it, and we think the solution that would make everyone happiest is if I JUST invite Sam to my bachelorette party (which will be fun, I’m planning a multi-day celebration with a lot of my college friends). My fiancé doesn’t want his ex there (which is also reasonable, that was his first serious relationship and if Sam’s going to dredge up feelings he’d rather not deal with on his wedding day, he shouldn’t have to.) Sam expects to be invited to the wedding (which is reasonable, we’re all friends). Sam’s in a happy relationship with someone else now. Their breakup was amicable, they’re on good terms, and Sam was the one who introduced me to my fiancé. They dated for almost three years before we met. I’ve been friends with Sam for over 10 years (we were close in college and for a few years after, we’ve seen each other less lately but that seems to be the way of most of my friendships.) Sam is also my fiancés ex. My question is about our mutual friend Sam (they/them). I (she/her) am getting married to my partner of seven years (he/him) in a few months. Yay! ![]()
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